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Every open thread in one place, and the date it last moved
This page exists because the answer to “are you keeping track of all this?” was honestly: in four places, and the published one was already stale. This is the one that is not.
What has actually come back Added 15 September
This table did not exist until today, and its absence cost a duplicated letter. The tracker recorded what was sent and never what was said back — so a constraint that reshaped every estate request in this archive sat unread in the mailbox for a day.
| From | When | What it said |
|---|---|---|
| Ms Mavis Xaba Reading Room, National Archives | 14 Sep | The most important reply this archive has had. “All the estate files you are requesting are bound files. Unfortunately, we are therefore unable to scan these files and provide complete digital copies by email.” She referred the enquiry to a private researcher instead. It reshapes every MHG request made here — and it was sent to the sibling archive, not this one. |
| Arquivo Histórico Militar Lisbon | 14 Sep | Acknowledged in nine minutes, after the first attempt bounced off a dead domain. Will answer if anything exists. |
| Archiwum Państwowe Bydgoszcz | 14 Sep | Acknowledged; queries are taken in order of receipt, and a complicated one can take over a month. |
| Mr D Keyster Master, Cape Town | 15 Sep | Automatic. Diverts appointment queries — letters of authority and executorship — to Ms P Arendse. A copy request is not one, so ours should stay with him. |
| Ms N Mphetshwa Master, Cape Town | 15 Sep | Automatic. She has left the Deceased Estates section. That cc was wasted. |
| Everyone else | — | Silence. Eleven institutional letters and four messages to living people, and nothing yet from any of them. |
And a structural gap, now named The cause of today’s duplicate
Two archives share one mailbox. This one and the Lerena/Booyzen family have separate sites, separate notes and separate questions — but one email account, one National Archives, one Reading Room contact, and now one private researcher. Neither project’s notes knew what the other had sent.
A shared file now sits in both projects listing every contact, its live state, the addresses known to be dead, and the constraints that apply to both. And a rule at the top of it: before writing to any institution, search the sent mail. One query. It would have caught all three of today’s problems at once — the dead domain, the bound-files constraint, and two people already written to.
The next fifteen Set 15 September, evening
The position changed twice today — first when the segments named a couple, then when a source that indexes women by their maiden name turned up. Both open work that was not available this morning. These are in the order they would change the answer.
Documents that would settle it
| 1 | Leonard’s own estate. Sweep the gazettes 1973–1982 surname-first, and NAAIRS for an MHG file. His death notice names his parents and his children — the single most useful page in this whole enquiry. It also settles 1973 against 1979. |
| 2 | MHG 10245/69 — Henry Robert Wear’s estate, National Archives, Pretoria. Its death notice lists his children, which tests the entire Letchworth reconstruction against a South African document rather than an English index. |
| 3 | WLD 1950/1948 — Kurt against Ivone, filed within months of marrying her — with 497/1951 and 2368/1951 behind it. Why he filed is the question this archive has circled since the beginning. |
| 4 | Willem Adrian Nel’s estate. He predeceased Gillian, so his death notice names their children — which is to say, whether Derrick has living half-nieces and nephews who could still take a test. Free, in the gazettes, surname first. |
DNA work now possible that was not this morning
| 5 | Cross-match the other two top matches — 333.9 and 165.9 cM. Their shared-match tables were never read, and it was reading the first two that broke this open. |
| 6 | Segment-test those two against the 297.5 match. Does the 165.9 match share Wear segments or only Castle ones? The archive has been assuming he is Brown-side. The chromosome browser can say. |
| 7 | Re-sweep all 5,464 matches for Wear, Robertson, Nel and Green. Castle returned fourteen; Wear returned eight and the top one was a seventeenth-century Weare. Now the archive knows which is which. |
The shape of the Wear family
| 8 | Is Henry Robert Wear in the 1939 Register? If the household is absent from England in September 1939, they had already gone — which dates the crossing, and the archive currently cannot date it at all. |
| 9 | Outbound passenger lists, Wear to South Africa, 1936–1948. This was hopeless when the surname was a guess. It is tractable now: the family, the ages and the destination are all known. |
| 10 | Did Bruce Wallace Wear have sons? Four marriages. A son carries the Wear Y-chromosome, and one Y test from him would confirm or destroy this entire reading in a single result. South African births and marriages, 1960–1985. |
| 11 | Bruce’s own death. Not in the gazettes, not in the verified deaths. Try the Cape rather than the Transvaal — Kuruman is Northern Cape — and the 1984 and 2004 voter rolls. |
Loose ends, and one debt
| 12 | Mervin Halsey’s parents. Henry George Charles Halsey 1906–1993 and Mary Ellen Halsey 1907–1981 are the right ages. Their gazette estates would settle it and close a question this archive carried for a fortnight before it went moot. |
| 13 | Re-run every woman in the archive by maiden name, now that it is possible: Auguste’s sister Hilda; Kurt’s other wives Frances Hostowsky and Pauline Rappoport; and Ivone under Salkow — her Porto death has defeated every Portuguese route, and it may be reachable from the South African side. |
| 14 | The gendatabase terms. Their pages say their information may not be republished without written permission, and this archive is on the open web. Ask through their form, re-source the five facts elsewhere, or move them into the working notes. Currently it is publishing against a stated term. |
| 15 | Read the 1948 register at full resolution. The 1956 register was read that way and produced the Piccadilly Hat Company; the 1952 was read that way and redirected the whole archive. The 1948 one — Kurt and Ivone, certificate 858 — never has been. |
The plan, 15 September Rewritten after the gendatabase sweep
A South African search engine the family found, gendatabase.com, indexes women under their maiden name — the one thing nothing else here could do. Sweeping every surname in this archive through it took an hour and changed the shape of what is left to do.
1. Documents to order, in the order they matter
| Reference | What it would settle | |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | WLD 1950/1948 National Archives, Pretoria | Kurt Luwinsky versus Ivone, born Mota Figueiredo — 1948. He married her in June and filed the same year. This archive has circled that fact for weeks without a file number. The grounds are in this file. |
| 2 | WLD 497/1951 and WLD 2368/1951 | Restitution of conjugal rights, then divorce — the South African sequence for desertion. Why the 1948 action did not finish it. |
| 3 | MHG 10245/69 | Henry Robert Wear’s own estate. Its death notice names his children — which tests the whole Letchworth reconstruction against a South African document. |
| 4 | MHG 7584/69 | Kurt’s estate. Already requested from Pretoria; still waiting. |
| 5 | 12294/2023 | Henrique’s estate. Already requested; still waiting. |
| 6 | WLD 790/1957 | Wear versus Norquoy, six years after the divorce. Applications of that kind are usually about children. |
| — | Cancelled. Edwina was born a Green. She is nobody. |
2. What a paid gendatabase account buys — and what it does not
Checked rather than assumed. The free profile says so itself: “dates show the year only and fields marked Members only are hidden.” Membership runs R110 / R245 / R400 — roughly £4.60, £10, £17 — and a single verified report is R20, about 85p.
A paid report gives full names and maiden name, full date of birth, identity number, citizenship, last marital status, living status, and sometimes address and telephone history.
Corrected within the hour. That was written from the marketing copy and it was too flat. Tested on a profile whose estate number is already known from the gazette, the hidden fields are: identity number, old identity number, marriage details, name changes, the 1984 and 2004 voter rolls, place and cause of death — and Estate Information.
Estate information is the one that matters. It does not give parents. It gives the estate reference — and the death notice inside an estate file names the father and the mother. gendatabase → estate number → order the file → parents. That is exactly the chain this archive needs, one step removed. Worth the R110.
The lookups that would pay for it on the first day: Gillian Agnes Louisa Nel (1941–2024) — is Leonard her father; Leonard himself — his parents, his heirs, and whether he died in 1973 or 1979; the three other Wear-born daughters of 1943, 1946 and 1949; and Mervin Richard Halsey, which would close a question this archive has carried for a fortnight.
And then the paywall turned out not to matter Settled, free
Every South African estate over the threshold must be advertised as a Form J193 notice in the Government Gazette, and that corpus is free, full-text, and runs to 2026. The estate numbers were never behind a paywall at all. The only trick is the name order — modern notices read surname first, so “Gillian Agnes Louisa Nel” returns nothing and “Gillian Agnes Louisa” finds her immediately.
| Born Wear | Estate | Born | Died | Master |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Gillian Agnes Louisa Nel | 10761/2024 | 8 Aug 1941 | 17 Mar 2024, Hermanus | Cape Town |
| Patricia Mary Maud Grant | 018561/2021 | 23 Mar 1946 | 7 Jun 2021, Pinelands | Cape Town |
| Heather Jill Hunter | 017256/2022 | 1949 | 2022 | Durban |
| Doris Dawn Joubert | 015639/2022/DBN | 1943 | 2022 | Durban |
Gillian’s notice adds her exact birth date, her identity number, her address at Hermanus, and a blank where a surviving spouse would go. Two of these four retired to the Cape and died under the same Master. Derrick was born between the second and the third.
So: do not buy the subscription for this. It would still reach people the gazettes cannot — chiefly Leonard himself, who died in 1973 or 1979 where the OCR is poor — and it would add identity numbers and the 1984 and 2004 voter rolls. That is worth R110 to somebody. It is not needed here. The next step is a letter, not a payment: the Master of the High Court at Cape Town, for 10761/2024 and 018561/2021. Each file holds a death notice with a field for the father’s name.
And a condition this archive has to meet Unresolved
Every gendatabase profile carries this: “Information found on GenDatabase may not be shared online or in print without prior written permission.” This archive is published on the open web.
The National Archives references — the 1948 and 1951 court files, the estate numbers — are not affected: NAAIRS is a free public index and this archive queried it directly. The affected list turned out shorter than it looked. Gillian’s and Patricia’s dates, identity numbers, addresses and estate numbers are all in the Government Gazette, read from the PDF — not theirs. What is genuinely theirs is six facts: Edwina’s maiden name and 1980 marriage, Leonard’s sisters by their married names, his 1979 death, and the maiden name Wear for three more women.
The permission request was submitted on 15 September, naming the six facts, the one site they would appear on, and an undertaking to publish no identity numbers, addresses, telephone numbers, causes of death or living persons’ details from their records. They review each request and email the decision, with a certificate attached if it is granted.
If it is refused, those six facts come off the public pages into the working notes, and the site will say a source asked for them to go rather than deleting them quietly. It costs the argument nothing: the Wear reconstruction rests on English birth, census and marriage indexes and on the Government Gazette, none of which is theirs.
3. Still free, still undone
- Sweep the remaining surnames — Castle (5,454, needs narrowing), Wallis, Brister, Parr, Fenton, Webb, Harrison, Green, Thorp.
- Test whether Henry George Charles Halsey (1906–1993) and Mary Ellen Halsey (1907–1981) are Mervin’s parents — the question put to the closest match this morning, before it went moot.
- Settle Leonard’s death year: the Nel tree says 1973, the verified death database says 1979. Two secondary sources disagreeing.
- Test the three other Wear-born daughters of the 1940s — 1943, 1946, 1949 — against the other Transvaal Wear family.
The letters
Eleven sent, and exactly one has ever bounced — the one sent before every address was checked for a mail record first. That is now standing procedure, and it has since caught three dead addresses before they cost anything.
| Sent | To | Where | Asking for | State |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 14 Sep | Arquivo da Defesa Nacional | Paço d’Arcos | Henrique’s 1961 military registration | Delivered |
| 14 Sep | Arquivo Histórico Militar | Lisboa | Same request, after the bounce | Acknowledged |
| 14 Sep | Arquivo Histórico de Moçambique | Maputo | Recruitment-district records, 1950s–60s | Delivered |
| 15 Sep | Arquivo Histórico de Moçambique | Maputo | Ivone’s 1924 birth certificate | Delivered |
| 15 Sep | Master of the High Court | South Gauteng | J294 in estate 12294/2023 — Henrique | Delivered |
| 15 Sep | Landesarchiv Berlin | Berlin | Gertrud’s death 1943 · the 1924 marriage and divorce · Kurt’s 1912 birth entry | Delivered |
| 15 Sep | National Archives | Pretoria | J294 in estate TAB MHG 7584/69 — Kurt | Delivered |
| 15 Sep | 1ª Conservatória do Registo Civil | Porto | Ivone’s death record, date unknown | Delivered |
| 15 Sep | Archiwum Państwowe | Bydgoszcz | Standesamt Schubin 1884 — Jacob’s birth | Acknowledged |
| 15 Sep | Archiwum Państwowe | Koszalin | Standesamt Hammerstein 1884 — Georg; and Sally, 1847 | Delivered |
| 14 Sep | Arquivo Histórico Militar | — | Sent to a dead domain | Bounced — resent |
| 15 Sep 09:27 | The 292.7 cM match | MyHeritage | Her own Castles in the Baldock censuses, and one question back: what became of the Castle sons | Sent |
| 15 Sep 09:28 | The 297.5 cM match | MyHeritage | A correction — the link is her grandmother, not her grandfather | Sent |
| 15 Sep 12:01 | The keeper of the Nel Web Site | MyHeritage | Leonard’s English family, and the finding. The first cold letter of the project | Sent |
| 15 Sep | Master of the High Court | Cape Town | J294 in estates 10761/2024 and 018561/2021 — the two Wear daughters who died in the Cape | Delivered |
| 15 Sep | National Archives (TAB) | Pretoria | Sent to dac.gov.za — a renamed department. No bounce; simply the wrong door | Stale address |
| 15 Sep | National Archives (DSAC) | Pretoria | Resent: WLD 1950/1948, 497/1951, 2368/1951 — and whether MHG 10245/69 can be copied at all | Delivered |
| 15 Sep | Private researcher | Pretoria | Added MHG 10245/69 to an existing commission · and asked whether she works the Deeds Registry | Sent |
| 15 Sep | GenDatabase | Web form | Permission to publish six facts that came from them and nowhere else | Sent |
Item 8 answered itself, 15 September Closed
The letter asking the closest match who her grandfather’s parents were went out in the morning. By the afternoon the question was moot: a column on the 1952 marriage register shows her grandfather was born in the Cape Province and her grandmother in England, and the English side is the one that matters. Her grandmother’s birth entry names the mother as a Castle, of Baldock, Hertfordshire — the second of Derrick’s top matches descends from the same couple through a different daughter. The chain →
The fifteen
| Action | State | Where it stands | |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Order estate 12294/2023 — Henrique’s J294 | Sent — awaiting reply | Sent to the named estate controller for files ending in 4, with a line asking her to redirect it if the estate sits elsewhere. |
| 2 | Order estate 7584/69 — Kurt’s J294 | Sent — awaiting reply | Corrected mid-flight: this is a National Archives request, not a Master’s one. Kurt died in 1968 and files that old went to Pretoria long ago. |
| 3 | Ivone’s Porto death record | Sent — awaiting reply | A false claim of kinship was caught in the draft and removed before sending. Asks whether a search by name is possible at all, since her date of death is unknown. |
| 4 | Ivone’s Lourenço Marques birth — ANSWERED from the family’s own papers | Sent — awaiting reply | SUPERSEDED 27 September 2026: Derrick supplied the assento itself, which names her parents and all four grandparents, so the certificate is no longer needed for that. Her 1922 birth falls inside the Maputo archive’s 1865–1934 range — it was Henrique’s 1941 that fell outside. Asks for parents and, if recorded, grandparents. |
| 5 | Henrique’s 1968 marriage record | Not doable from here | Searched on both groom and bride. Not in FamilySearch — the South African marriage collections thin out after the mid-1960s. May simply arrive inside the estate file at item 1. |
| 6 | The June 1948 ante-nuptial contract | Not doable from here | A South African deeds registry “may not give out information acting on a letter or a telephone call.” Needs attendance in person or a paid commercial search. |
| 7 | The February 1956 ante-nuptial contract | Not doable from here | Same office, same obstacle. |
| 8 | Write to the closest British match | Acknowledged | SENT 15 September, then CORRECTED an hour later. The 1952 register's birthplace column shows Mervin Halsey was born in the Cape Province and Cynthia Wear in England, so the link is the grandmother. A second message told her so. And the question the first letter asked has since answered itself anyway: the verified South African death records give HENRY GEORGE CHARLES HALSEY, 1906-1993, and MARY ELLEN HALSEY, 1907-1981 — the right ages to be Mervin's parents. Untested, and no longer on the critical path. |
| 9 | Write to the keeper of the 10,715-person tree | Acknowledged | SENT 15 September as a follow-up inside the June 2025 thread — and again at 09:27 the same day, this time carrying a finding rather than a question: her own Castle family in the Baldock censuses, two children her tree is missing, and the correction that Caroline was born a Walls. The question back is narrow — what became of the Castle sons, and did any of them go to South Africa. |
| 10 | Big Y-700 on Derrick’s kit | Waiting on the family | A purchase. This archive does not spend other people’s money. |
| 11 | Kurt’s naturalisation | Not doable from here | Done as far as it can be. The Union gazette did publish naturalisation applications — his partner made one in February 1942 — and Kurt appears in none of them under any spelling the OCR catches. Recorded as a negative with its limits. |
| 12 | Finish the Gazettes.Africa sweep | Not doable from here | Done. Leibholz zero, Salkow zero, “Piccadilly Hat” nothing after 1952, Walter Oppenheimer seven including his naturalisation, Ivy Fuchs seven including her husband’s estate. |
| 13 | Gertrud’s death register, 27 February 1943 | Sent — awaiting reply | Asked as one of three questions in the Berlin letter. The cause of death is the point. |
| 14 | Auguste and Jacob’s divorce file | Sent — awaiting reply | Same letter. In a Berlin Mischehe the date is the whole meaning of the act. |
| 15 | Szubin and Hammerstein registers | Acknowledged | Two letters, one to each archive, each told what the other was asked. Both civil registries opened in 1874, so an 1884 birth entry names both parents outright. |
Two messages sent on the finding itself 15 September, 09:27 and 09:28
| To | Carrying | Asking |
|---|---|---|
| The 292.7 cM match keeper of the 10,715-person tree | Her own Castles, found in the 1901 and 1911 censuses at Baldock — including two children her tree does not have, Hilda b.1902 and Ernest b.1904, and the correction that Caroline was born a Walls, her widowed father Joseph living in the house. | What became of the Castle sons — George W. b.1885, Frederick b.1890, Ernest b.1904 — and whether any of them, or their children, went out to South Africa. |
| The 297.5 cM match a correction, an hour after the fact | That the letter sent to her at 08:12 asked the wrong question. The link is her grandmother, not her grandfather, and the chain from the register to the Baldock censuses, laid out so she can check it. | Anything the family holds about Cynthia’s own people — and who she knew in Johannesburg before she got there, because a young woman does not sail from Hertfordshire alone and by chance. |
Neither was a new approach. Both went into threads opened in June 2025. The second exists because a wrong question had been put in writing that morning, and leaving it standing would have been worse than sending twice in one day.
And a sentence in both of them is already overstated Noted, not resent
Both messages say Derrick’s father was most likely a son of George and Caroline. An hour later that was walked back — the generation is not settled. No third message has been sent. The question actually asked of them — what became of the Castle sons, and did any go to South Africa — is the right question under either reading, because under the further one Derrick’s father is a son of one of those sons. Only the confidence of one sentence was wrong, and three messages to the same two people in one morning would cost more than it corrected. It will be put right in the reply, if a reply comes.
Replies sent into the June 2025 threads
| To | Shared with Derrick | The one thing asked |
|---|---|---|
| The closest match | 297.5 cM | Who were Mervin Halsey’s parents, and where was he born? Either Mervin was a brother of Derrick’s biological father, or Mervin’s parent was |
| The second cousin who offered his tree | 333.9 cM | His mother’s parents and grandparents, where his Brown sits · and how the Rocha matches arise, the one fact the two-cluster model cannot absorb |
| Walley Brown’s great-grandson | 165.9 cM | Whether his sister will talk · and what is known of Walley Brown, married twice and possibly at once — is he Walter George Brown, 1889–1971? |
| The keeper of the 10,715-person tree | 292.7 cM | Sent earlier: siblings of Walter George Brown or Agnes Kate Castle whose children were never traced |
All four went into threads that already existed, each opening by owning a fifteen-month silence rather than glossing it. None was a cold approach, because none could honestly have been.
What is actually waiting on you
Three things, and none of them is research.
- Reply to the match who offered his whole tree in June 2025 and was never answered. He is on Ancestry, not MyHeritage, which is why his tree here holds three people. Fifteen months late, but the offer may stand.
- All four letters to living matches have now gone, the last of them a cold approach to a stranger about her own father. The concern that Derrick should be told before a stranger is was raised twice and overruled twice; that is the family’s call and the file says so.
- Nothing, for the first time in this archive’s life. Request 11 went to the Master at Cape Town on 15 September; every letter and message is out. The next movement comes from somebody else’s filing cabinet.
- Big Y-700. A purchase, and the one test that would place Derrick on a branch young enough for a surname to mean something.
- The two ante-nuptial contracts — now asked about rather than stuck. They sit in a Deeds Registry, which is a different institution from the archives, and the researcher already working in Pretoria has been asked whether she does that work or can name someone who does.
Everything else is either in the post or finished. The next movement in this archive comes from somebody else’s filing cabinet, and Bydgoszcz has already warned that a complicated request can take more than a month.
And the ones that came back negative
Recorded because a search that found nothing is still a search, and the next person should not repeat it.
- Leibholz — zero across all 54,313 South African gazettes, and zero in NAAIRS. The name never entered South African public record.
- Mota — zero in NAAIRS. Salkow — zero in the gazettes.
- Colonial Mozambican gazettes — not held by Gazettes.Africa; its Mozambique run begins at independence in 1975.
- Projecto GERMIL — the Portuguese military master books stop in 1908, thirty years too early for Henrique.
- No Theory of Family Relativity exists on any of Derrick’s 5,464 matches. Nothing here will be found by machine.